其实谁都不想发脾气，赌气不过是为了看看对方会为自己退让多少空间.我们都有这样一个习惯，闹矛盾时喜欢说话带刺，喜欢不理不睬。懂得你的人会为你放下架子，不懂你的人，维持了僵局，失望的只有你自己.
Anger actually who don't want to lose his temper, but is to look at the other side will concession how much space for himself. We have such a habit, have to like to talk a thorn, like brush-off. A man who knows you will put down the shelf for you, don't understand you of person, maintaining the deadlock, disappointment only you.